When you first start dating a guy, you have no idea if it will lead to a timeless love or not. Over time finding out if he’s in love with you or if he just wants a fling becomes important. No one wants to waste their time on a guy who doesn’t plan on a future with you. So let’s help you figure it out.
These 5 signs will tell you he’s in love with you:
1. He will invest in you
Now we’re not talking money or frivolous gifts. A man who loves you will put in an effort to see that you’re comfortable. He will be there for you when you need it and will always ask about your plans and make intelligent contributions to help you achieve those plans. even if it means canceling on his friends.
2. He will protect you
Mean are designed to protect the woman they love instinctively. It’s wired into their subconscious. When a man loves you it will show in things as little as making you walk on the side of him that is away from traffic or fussing over and cooking for you when you’re stressed out or sick.
3. He will accept you for who you are
If a man loves you he won’t try to fix what’s not broken. Most ladies don’t understand this, but there’s a difference between accepting your flaws and helping you be better and then trying to change you all around into someone more suitable for them. A man who loves you will not force you to be someone you’re not.
4. He will tell you he loves you and shows it
All men wear their egos like a jacket, but when a man loves you he won’t be able to hold off telling you. So if he truly looks at you and tells you he loves you and shows it in his actions. Does he spend time just holding you after sex or does he fall asleep once he’s done? Does he take the time to make sure you’re satisfied or is he selfish?
5. He will listen to you and challenge you
This might come as a surprise but if he’s in love with you, he will not beat around the bush with you. He will respect you and listen to your opinions genuinely. But he will also challenge you with his own perspective because he knows he wants a lifetime commitment and understanding matters.
