A normal friendship doesn’t involve too much emotions, it’s as normal as the feelings you have for your female friends. Then there’s that one guy friend who gives you butterflies, who you can’t ignore and he reciprocates the same.
He shows you all the signs that he likes you and sometimes you’re confused because you feel like you’re in a relationship. But to put your doubts and thoughts aside I can assure you that these signs confirm if you’re more than just friends.
1. You think about them a lot
If he was just a friend he wouldn’t be the only guy you constantly think about. When you like a guy you tend to think about him, what he’s doing, you miss him a lot more than you normally would. He also tells you that he can’t wait to spend time with you.
2. You get jealous if they are with someone else
You don’t like seeing him with someone else. If he tells you stories about other girls you feel a bit of jealousy and wish he didn’t have to see other people. You probably pretend it’s because you don’t want anyone to break his heart while in reality it’s because you want him for yourself.
3. You actually meet like people who are dating
You set time aside for the two of you to meet and you look forward to it. There’s never a time you feel like he’s a burden and you actually go for movies and it feels like a date.
4. You’ve slept together and you liked it
Oops it happened and you loved it. You may pretend that it just happened by mistake but you actually look forward to another time. Things didn’t get awkward after that and in fact you might be closer. If you haven’t slept together yet, you’re probably anticipating the day it happens.
5. You talk all the time
He is your main confidant and the two of you talk about everything and anything. You must communicate at least every day and if you don’t you feel weird and even sad about it.
6. You’ve had the relationship talk
You’ve talked about the possibility of dating a couple of times but you’re probably waiting to see how things go because things have been great and you don’t want to ruin whatever the two of you have.
If you ticked yes to most of the points above then you need to ask yourself the next question. Would you want to be with this guy you clearly like? What is the end goal of your friendship and if you choose not to be with him how do you set boundaries?
Source: Zumi.ng
