Have you ever met someone you really like and everything goes really well, but somehow it’s not as much fun as you want? Do you want to make dating more fun with a partner you like? Well, we can help with that. Having fun in a relationship is not the sole responsibility of the guy, it’s up to you too.
Try these 5 ways to make dating more fun
1. Drop your expectations
Expecting to meet Mr perfect with perfect eyes, and hair, and a brilliant mind is just setting yourself up for failure. So focus on getting to know who he really is and how he makes you feel and ignore silly mistakes. No one is perfect, you’re not perfect either.
2. Call it as it is
If you really want to have fun when you’re dating. Don’t play mind games. Call a date a date, whether it’s just drinks or a romantic dinner or you just want to know how he feels? Call a date a date, at worst he’ll freak out and disappear, good riddance.
3. Have options
Seeing one person at a time at the beginning of a dating life is never a wise decision. It sets you up to put a lot of expectations on the person and invest your emotions unnecessarily. Get to know other people and then trim it down as things progress. It’s wise to know not to sleep with them either. You don’t wanna catch something.
4. Be yourself
The easiest way to find the right person is to be yourself. Pretending to be someone you’re not is just setting both of you up for failure and that’s not good for anyone. So be you and if he doesn’t like you, someone else does.
5. Have fun no matter what
The idea of dating, while is to find a life partner, is also to have fun. So whatever the case make sure you’re having fun. Unless you’re a generally dull person who can’t be happy. If it’s not fun, there’s probably no chemistry and you should move on.
