There are so many wrong cliches about what sex is like in a committed relationship. They all seem to revolve around how sex gets dull and boring when things become stable and official. But you’re definitely missing out if you fall for them.
Sex can be incredibly satisfying when you’re married or in a committed relationship. All you have to do is focus on these awesome benefits:
1. You can do it anytime
If you’re a married or cohabiting couple, for example, you no longer have to fit your sexual schedules into the days you’re able to pay each other a visit. Sex can happen literally whenever you want it to. Knowing your orgasm is just one request away can be quite exhilarating.
2. You’re more relaxed
It’s difficult to be in the moment during sex if you’re constantly worried about whether or not he likes you, finds you attractive or thinks the mole on your butt is icky. But when you’re in a stable relationship, you know he obviously finds you beautiful. You no longer have to doubt yourself and you can completely give in to the pleasure he offers.
3. You get to explore
Another upside to having sex in a committed relationship is that you can expand your sexual boundaries however you want. It becomes easier to talk to your man about your fantasies and you can try a bunch of things without the fear of being judged.
4. Satisfying quickies
When your partner knows exactly what turns you on, quickies are so much more satisfying. If you only have five minutes to get off, you both know the right buttons to push to get to your orgasmic destinations faster.
5. Sex is more fun
Awkward moments are nothing to worry about when it comes to monogamy and stability. You’re so comfortable with each other that when a particular sex move causes you to trip and fall off the bed, you can laugh about it during, and even afterward.
