Breakups are hard. Knowing the end of a relationship is close can be really painful, But ending things the proper way goes a long way to making it better. It’s important to know how to break up with your boyfriend the right way to avoid a lot of drama and resentment on both parts. So we’ll help you through it
Here’s how to break up with your boyfriend the right way
Do it yourself
Everyone has an ego, which is why you should be sensitive to people’s feelings when ending things. Do not send a text or mail or get your friend or his friend to break the news to him. Respect him enough to face him when you want to end things. It makes him feel valued and appreciated and can go a long way to ease the hurt.
Tell him why
Don’t just say it’s not working or you want different things. Give him a tangible reason. Something that gives him closure. There is nothing worse than wondering “what if and maybe” when someone breaks up with you. Knowing what the problem is, gives him closure and helps him work on being better for the next person.
Do it in private
Break up in a quiet, private and comfortable place. This gives him the privacy to deal with his feelings and the respect he deserves as someone who shared your life with you. Avoid breaking up in a crowded restaurant or with friends present, unless you’re scared for your safety.
Plan ahead
Always prepare your points and reason and plan ahead for any questions he might have. This helps you stay focused and emotionally stable enough to end things without getting into a fight or feeling anxious or losing your strength and staying in a relationship that’s not good for you.
Be Sure
Most importantly, be sure you really are ready to end things before you do so you don’t end up with regrets over things that can be fixed or understood. Break up for the right reasons and make sure your excuses are not superficial.
Now you know how to be sensitive when you break up, let us know if you have any advice or contributions in the comment section.
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