So you’re thinking of getting yourself a sex toy. You’re smart to start with a vibrator. It’s user-friendly (so to speak) and can totally turn things around for you in the bedroom. And during solo sessions.
Buying your first vibrator is not something you do on a whim, though. Here are a few things to consider before taking the plunge, pun intended.
What do you want to use it for?
Do you want something you’ll use primarily on your own or a toy your partner will use on you? It is better to get a vibrator designed for individual use. If this is your first time purchasing any sex toy, you need to make sure you are comfortable with it before bring your partner on board. That should save you many awkward moments.
What turns you on?
The best way to figure out what type of sensation feels best is to masturbate. Don’t purchase a big fat dildo if clitoral stimulation gets you off, for instance. There are vibes out there specifically tailored to tease your clitoris. And you definitely don’t want to spend your money on something that won’t make you cum.
It’s an investment
The best and most effective vibrators may be on the high side. And it can seem ridiculous to spend so much money on something seemingly needless. But before buying your first vibrator you have to be prepared to make the investment. If you cheapen out, you may end up with something that isn’t durable or feels too mechanical against your body.
Buying your first vibrator should be a fun experience but you should also take your time. Read reviews, ask women who have experiences with them and try to go for what feels good for you. You can experiment with later purchases. But this first time should be all about your comfort and pleasure.
Still, your partner can do much better for you with better communication than what a vibrator can. *winks*
